Plenty of Fish makes you choose whether you're interested in men or women, not both. This really bothers me. Currently, I have it set for men but say in my profile that I'm bisexual. After the "not interested" guy, two attractive guys messaged me at the same time, and then emailed me. The first emailed once or twice then asked to text. So on Monday, we were texting back and forth most of the day. One of his first texts asked for pictures. Even though I have several recent pictures on PoF (more than he does), I directed him to my old MySpace site. I had kept up the pictures on that until just a few months ago.
I guess I passed that test, because he kept texting me. In the afternoon, he asks if I've ever had a threesome. I immediately think, "OMG, that's what this is all about!" I asked if he had a girlfriend, to see if he was looking for a third. His next text said that he was basically trying to find two women to have a threesome with. Oy vay. So I tell him that I'm not interested, that I want a relationship. His next text, I shit you not, "So, would any of your friends be interested?" OMG, like bisexual women just hang out with other bisexual women and talk about having sex together with random guys?! I couldn't even believe it, so I didn't respond.
Like my friend Robert said, that guy's a tool. It was another case of an attractive guy not being what I want. May be my stereotype of attractive guys isn't all that off?
Anyway, I immediately emailed the other Plenty of Fish guy, and said that if he was just looking for a threesome, that he should keep looking. He said that he's interested in more than sex, so we'll see.
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